The Qawwamun Code

First print · 2026

A forthcoming book · in print soon

There are two kinds of provision. Most of us count only the one that can be counted.

The Qawwamun Code is about what money is actually for inside a marriage — and why provision, understood the way Islam framed it, changes how a household breathes.

Why this book

A woman named Hind once stood before the Prophet ﷺ and told him her husband — one of the richest men in Makkah — was tight with money. Could she take what she needed without asking?

His answer came down to two words: sufficient, and customary. Those two words settled the economics of a marriage. Most couples today have never heard them.

If you and your spouse have ever argued about money and sensed your faith had an answer you couldn’t quite name — it does. It’s in these pages.

What the book argues

01

Sufficient, and customary

The Prophet's ﷺ answer to Hind came down to two words — and those two words settled the economics of a marriage. Most couples today have never heard them.

02

Her money is hers. His money is theirs.

A wife's salary belongs to her alone, while provision remains his duty in full. The book traces why the sovereign wife is not a modern concession but the original design.

03

The 50/50 myth

The equal-split default most modern couples reach for quietly dismantles something Islam built to protect her — and neither spouse notices until it is tested.

04

Provision as worship

Provision was never meant to be a burden. Weighed on the spiritual ledger, it is the highest-yield thing a man will ever do with a dinar.

There are two kinds of provision.
Most of us count only the one that can be counted.

The words the book uses

The framework is older than English and richer than English alone can carry. Three terms do most of the work.

Nafkah
The wealth a man spends on what his household needs — food, drink, clothing, shelter, and what goes with them. The word grows from a root meaning to run out: nafkah is named for the fact that it is spent. English offers maintenance, provision, support — each of them true, and each of them thin.
Kifayah
The standard of sufficiency — the measure by which provision is judged adequate. Chapter Two introduces it, and almost every chapter after assumes you already understand it.
Fiqh
The body of practical Islamic jurisprudence that translates revelation into rulings. It is where the framework of provision is worked out in detail.

Inside the book

An Author’s Note, an Introduction, and nineteen chapters — from a dispute in seventh-century Makkah to dual-income households, digital wallets, and what happens to provision when a marriage ends.

Read the Author’s Note and Introduction in full ›

  1. 01The Breadwinner's Privilege
  2. 02Hind's Dilemma
  3. 03The Honest Wage
  4. 04The Illusion of Lavishness
  5. 05The Spiritual Ledger
  6. 06The Hierarchy of Capital
  7. 07The Sovereign Wife
  8. 08Dual-Income Dynamics
  9. 09The Invisible Wage
  10. 10The Weight of Debt
  11. 11Housing as a Right
  12. 12The Unpriced Economy
  13. 13The Eroding Baseline
  14. 14The Digital Wallet
  15. 15Crisis and Compassion
  16. 16One Standard, Every World
  17. 17The Divided Roof
  18. 18When the Marriage Ends
  19. 19Beyond the Grave
  20. +From Reading to Doing
  21. +Glossary
  22. +References

About the author

M. A. Alsagoff completed his memorisation of the Quran before beginning his formal studies. He studied at Rubat Tareem in Hadramawt, Yemen, and at the Sheikh Ahmad Kuftaro Institute in Damascus, Syria. He holds a degree in Fiqh and Usul al-Fiqh from the International Islamic University Malaysia, and a Master’s in Islamic Finance from INCEIF.

He returned to Singapore to work in Islamic finance, and has been speaking on the subject — most often on investment and estate planning, the two things families tend to leave until last. He lives in Singapore with his wife and children.

The book

Title
The Qawwamun Code
Subtitle
Money, Marriage, and the Duty of Provision
Category
Islamic Marriage · Family Finance
Format
Paperback · First edition, 2026
ISBN
978-981-94-7386-1
Availability
First print in preparation